GRIEVING

A similar version of this important letter was sent to the Soma Tacoma church family late THURSday night, November 14.

November 15, 2019

Dear Soma Family,

As you know, over the past month Randy has been encountering an increasingly difficult battle with several debilitating health challenges. He has experienced chronic back pain and some symptoms of depression and anxiety for several years. In 2010, following 3 tours of duty as an Army Ranger in Iraq & Afghanistan, he was diagnosed with PTSD (though he has been mostly non-symptomatic until 4 weeks ago). This diagnosis was almost certainly related to severe childhood abuse, as well. Recently, all of these things have intensified significantly.

Many from our church family have come around him and his family during this difficult time. He has been seeking professional care from many counselors and doctors. With grieving hearts, we must share with you that yesterday morning November 14, he believed he could no longer continue this battle and intentionally ended his own life.

We know this is shocking and devastating news. We spent the day yesterday and today with Lisa and the kids, friends and family have been notified, and we will continue to ensure that they are cared for. In an effort to not overwhelm them with care, we are requesting that people allow space for Lisa and the kids to grieve with just their closest family and friends who are with them right now. Please pray for them.

This Sunday, our current plan is to spend time grieving and praying together at our regularly scheduled gathering.

We are extremely sad and overwhelmed, and yet we know “the LORD is near to the brokenhearted, and saves the crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18). “Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need” (Hebrews 4:16).

In Christ,

Jeff & Jayne Vanderstelt

Abe & Jenn Meysenburg

George & Monika Scheffe

Tim & Nicole Geisland

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